Worlds collide

I had a very enjoyable collision of three things this week: reading No Rules Rules by Reed Hastings and Erin Meyer – the story of Netflix’s culture (thank you Leo for the gift); a poem by Wendy Cope (thank you Liz for the gift); and a conversation with a leadership team.
The latter concerned the transformation of their organisation. They were wrestling with the thorny problem of how much information to share with people, particularly about structure, when at this point nothing was certain. The dilemma being whether it was fair to share ideas and potentially worry people about situations which might not arise, or whether to wait until everything was decided, at which point it would come as a surprise (not necessarily a pleasant one) to those affected.
There was an equal amount of uncertainty concerning the individuals participating in the discussion; this made me wonder whether there is an assumption that people above a certain pay grade (those people in the room with me) can cope with uncertainty and ambiguity, and those below can’t. Some members of the leadership team took pride in their role as insulators, protecting those lower down the hierarchy from the bad news for as long as possible.
Contrast this with Netflix, whose response to uncertainty and ambiguity seems to be: hire great people, be completely transparent with what is going on (even to the point of sharing highly sensitive commercial information) and trust them to be able to handle it. That’s not to say it necessarily makes it easier; there are many pages of the book examining the experiences of various employees going through a reorganisation and the impact it had on them; in some cases this resulted in periods of stress about situations which never arose.
And then there is the poem, Differences of Opinion by Wendy Cope:
He tells her that the earth is flat –
He knows the facts and that is that.
In altercations fierce and long
She tries her best to prove him wrong.
But he has learned to argue well.
He calls her arguments unsound
And often asks her not to yell.
She cannot win. He stands his ground.
The planet goes on being round.
What a wonderful last line! The planet goes on being round.
If there is one thing the pandemic has emphasised over and over again it’s that we can’t control life, it just happens to us. This is perhaps the fourth collision, where the world of organisational make-believe meets the reality of life. We have all learned to cope (to varying degrees) with the reality of living through a pandemic with its twists, turns, surprises and uncertainty. Knowing that, surely the days of leadership as a layer of insulation are numbered; the myth of believing our work will be predictable, organised and stable has been dismantled; and the invitation to behave in a way which creates organisational cultures that are Adult–Adult, rather than Parent–Child, is irresistible.









