Fan or commentator?
I was watching the football team I support play in their most important match ever. It wasn’t going well, they were losing 2-0, with very little time left. The atmosphere was tense, the opposing supporters were buoyant and noisy. Those around me were becoming fractious with each other; each of us was anticipating failure and the dreaded sense of disappointment which accompanies it. Nearby in the stadium were a couple of fellow fans who had brought along some drums. Miraculously – despite the score, the gloom and the lack of hope – they somehow managed to summon the energy to keep the beat going and rouse those around them. I found it difficult to cheer, shout and sing when the situation seemed so hopeless. My natural inclination was to criticise, stay silent and plan an early exit. One of the players on the pitch came over to the crowd and encouraged us to be noisier and show our support; he needed it, the other players needed it. We roused ourselves at his behest but it felt very unnatural.
How often do we see this situation mirrored in corporate life? The outcome of an important initiative is in doubt, those trying their best to deliver the result desperately need encouragement and energy and those ‘in the stands’ watch and wait to see what happens.
Back to the match ... my team scored, the atmosphere changed completely in the stadium and suddenly there was much more possibility. In fact, the shift in momentum was such that from nowhere with no chance, my team came back to win the match. At that point it was very easy to cheer and be enthusiastic about the players; to release all those positive emotions that naturally are evoked by success.
Encouragement comes at no cost, it is completely unlimited and yet we have a tendency to reserve it for those times when we are safe in the knowledge of the result. This might be better described as recognition, it is after the event and easy. I regard this as ‘commentating’: you haven’t acted to change what happens, you have been an observer and reported the result. How different is this from being an active supporter: offering appreciation at the most difficult of times when things aren’t going well and failure looms large. Which is the riskier position to occupy? To me there is no question, fans take risk, commentators play safe; if we really want to change a situation we don’t need more commentary from the stands, we need more people providing unconditional support, who can find the energy and courage to change the outcome through encouragement and not merely describe it post-hoc.









